The first thing that comes into our heads around the notion of digitalisation and in general the digital world is not for “listening” or “convincing techniques”. Normally we think about which programming language we should learn, what tools we should master, what platforms we should use, not to mention the whole ai “buzz” now everywhere (no ai=useless nowadays) . Yet the importance of more “personal” skills tends to be overshadowed.
Not very often I heard about needing other more “personal” skills in relation to the success of a digital journey implementation. But ultimately, people are the primary stakeholders in any digital journey. The success of the implementation revolves around on whether they embrace and adopt the tools and processes developed. Ignoring this crucial aspect can lead to failure, as evidenced by the closure of digital startups, with people cited as the primary reason for their demise.
Just today I read about the fail of a “digital” start-up where the CEO mentioned “people” as the first reason for its failure. He also mentioned that before having a finished product, he should have started with talking with the people first and understand their real needs. And this is exactly what I also learned in my professional experience. It doesn’t bring anything to have a perfect and ultra performing tool or platform if this is not needed or worse hated from their users.
In my professional experience, I’ve learned that certain “personal” skills are paramount when transforming old processes into digital ones or creating new ones. Here are the skills that, in my view, are essential:
Listening, listening and again listening
Absolutely, I am 100% sure about listening in the first place of this list. Before diving into any initiative, it’s crucial to engage with colleagues, understand their workflows, and inquire about their current practices. For instance, again from my own experience, when we had to transition from paper forms to digital devices for collecting contact information at events (like trade-shows), instead of starting with what tool we can use, which device are compatible,… the initial question should have been: “How do we traditionally welcome customers during a physical event?”
Asking this question helps uncover essential details such as whether each salesperson needs an individual device, if a touch-screen for attendees is more suitable, or if having a dedicated person to record information centrally is the better option. Just knowing how the Team usually interact with customers during events lead to understand if a direct collecting in our smartphone even could be a possibility, since they might be too busy talking to them or maybe they might prefer a quick scanning at visit cards and later on include eventual further information.
These insights are only accessed through open discussions and the exchange of information. By actively listening to the team’s input, we can accurately identify the specific requirements that need to be addressed. This collaborative and communicative approach ensures that any digital implementation aligns seamlessly with existing practices and meets the actual needs of the team.

Be Patient and Repetitive
Assuming that a single training session or one email is sufficient for a successful digital implementation process is either living in another universe or indicative of no experience in such projects. Achieving comprehensive learning takes repetition – approximately 10 times to solidify one full understanding. It’s not a reflection of lacking skills or laziness; rather, it’s a reality that individuals juggle various tasks and challenges in their professional lives. They might not immediately apply what they’ve learned due to the demands of their roles.
Expecting users to recall everything from a training or webinar, especially when they try the tool much later, sets the stage for frustration and disrupts the learning experience. It falls on us to be the constant support, reiterating, explaining, and training repeatedly. A positive approach, delivered with a smile and gentle guidance, is key. What may seem obvious to those immersed in the digital realm every day can be challenging for occasional users to remember. Patience and repetition become the pillars of ensuring a smooth and effective learning experience.
Flexibility is your best friend
Sometimes what I had in mind was very far from reality. For example I once created a perfect funnel that started from and adv in social media, followed by a series of email and ending with a 1:1 meeting with an expert.
However, reality struck hard – the social media ads weren’t reaching the right audience, the landing page went largely unnoticed, and the expected clicks simply weren’t materializing. The entire funnel came to an unexpected halt. Internally, the follow-up process faced hurdles due to a lack of information among the experts.
In hindsight, a major misstep was expecting our target audience to react precisely as we envisioned, not accounting for their actual behavior. I fully own up to this oversight; as digital experts, it’s our responsibility to ensure actions align with real habits rather than being overly theoretical. The key lesson here is to stay prepared for quick and frequent adaptations. Flexibility is crucial in the digital realm, where changes in strategy may be necessary to align with the audience’s actual responses rather than our anticipated reactions.
Positive and Enthusiast no matter what
We’re bound to face numerous challenges along the way, with significant pushback and criticism from various stakeholders. This is not surprising, considering human nature tends to resist change and new things. The fear stems from a potential loss of control over tasks and a reevaluation of one’s role in the process. People might feel redundant, especially if their responsibilities shift due to the implementation of new tools. Skepticism is also expected, as past experiences with various digital tools, some successful and others not, might breed doubt.
In navigating these pitfalls, our role as “digital drivers” becomes pivotal. We must show and keep unwavering confidence, positivity and assurance that the changes we’re proposing are not only right but necessary. Reassuring our team that the new ways of working are well-founded and beneficial becomes a crucial aspect of steering through the uncertainties.

Master convincing Technics
The last critical skill for today, which I believe is indispensable, revolves around what I previously referred to as “convincing techniques” or the principles of influence. These serve as highly effective strategies for persuading and gaining the cooperation of others. This becomes particularly crucial when introducing new tools or altering processes that may initially demand more effort, risking resistance if not convincingly presented. Even if such changes are mandated from the top, success hinges on ensuring that the users are not just informed but actively brought on board. Mere decisions won’t suffice; it requires a hands-on approach, ensuring everyone feels heard and valued.
Several influencing techniques prove valuable in this endeavor:
1. Appeal to Emotions:
- Engaging individuals passionate about technology, positioning the change as a revolutionary leap forward. It’s vital to be cautious, as excitement may wane if the novelty factor diminishes over time.
2. Logical Reasoning (“Added Value”):
- Clearly articulating the benefits the new process or features bring—whether increased efficiency, boosted sales, or other improvements. It’s crucial to consistently highlight the ultimate goals and the positive outcomes.
3. Social Proof and Fear of Missing Out:
- Staying informed about industry trends, learning from others, and sharing those insights within the organization. Creating a sense of urgency by looking beyond our immediate context and observing competitors. A robust network is essential for obtaining such information, as it often relies on word of mouth or connections.
In essence, successful implementation goes beyond decisions; it requires creating a narrative that resonates emotionally, demonstrating the tangible value through logic, and staying informed through a strong network. This approach ensures not only acceptance but active participation in the envisioned change.
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